The Nest Podcast and Blog

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You can listen to my podcast on Spotify where I talk with special guests who are local therapists about creating the life, love, and relationships you want.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 2/ Mindful Eating vs. Food Guilt
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 2/ Mindful Eating vs. Food Guilt

Holiday meals can trigger food guilt and stress, especially when diet culture and perfectionism frame eating as “good” or “bad.” Alexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S, explains that this guilt activates the stress response, interferes with digestion, and reinforces unhealthy eating patterns. Mindful eating offers an alternative by encouraging awareness, presence, and self-compassion around food. Key strategies include pausing before eating, serving balanced plates without rules, slowing down to savor meals, practicing gentle self-talk, noticing emotional triggers, grounding somatically, and practicing gratitude without pressure. Therapy and mindful eating support can help individuals break free from food guilt, foster healthier relationships with meals, and enjoy the holiday season with ease and nourishment.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 1/ High Key Gifted, Low Key Exhausted: When Being Smart Feels Like Too Much
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 1/ High Key Gifted, Low Key Exhausted: When Being Smart Feels Like Too Much

Being gifted doesn’t always mean feeling okay. Alexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S, explores the challenges of twice-exceptional (2e) individuals—those who are highly capable but also face ADHD, anxiety, perfectionism, or other neurodiverse traits. The 2e experience often involves constant mental pressure, emotional intensity, burnout, and test or performance anxiety. Perfectionism, while appearing as motivation, often masks fear and self-criticism. Therapeutic approaches like DBT, CBT, and ACT can help manage stress, regulate emotions, and cultivate self-compassion. By prioritizing progress over perfection and using grounding and coping strategies, twice-exceptional individuals can honor their abilities while protecting their well-being.

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