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SZN. 4 Ep. 8/ Why Resolutions Fail—And How to Create Real Change in 2026
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 8/ Why Resolutions Fail—And How to Create Real Change in 2026

Many New Year’s resolutions fail—around 80% by mid-February—often not due to lack of willpower, but because of rigid goals, outcome-focused thinking, external pressures, and ignoring the body’s stress response. Alexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S, explains that lasting change in 2026 comes from a different approach: anchoring goals in personal values, breaking habits into micro-steps, practicing somatic grounding, redefining success through self-compassion, and building supportive systems rather than chasing perfection. By focusing on consistency, small wins, and meaningful routines, you can finally turn resolutions into sustainable growth.

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