The Nest Podcast and Blog

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You can listen to my podcast on Spotify where I talk with special guests who are local therapists about creating the life, love, and relationships you want.

New episodes or blogs posted bi-weekly.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 12/ A Survivor’s Guide to Reporting Sexual Assault: Understanding Your Options
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 12/ A Survivor’s Guide to Reporting Sexual Assault: Understanding Your Options

Deciding whether to report sexual assault can be one of the most difficult and personal decisions a survivor faces. For many, the process brings up complex emotions, uncertainty, and questions about what reporting actually involves. While some survivors find empowerment in taking formal steps, others may choose different paths toward healing — and every choice deserves respect. Understanding the options available can help survivors feel more informed, supported, and in control as they consider what feels right for them.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 11/ Talking With Clients About the Current State of Our Country
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 11/ Talking With Clients About the Current State of Our Country

In times of heightened political and social uncertainty, many clients are experiencing overwhelm, anger, fear, or emotional numbness—and these reactions are both understandable and shared. This article explores how therapists can support clients through validation, normalization, and nervous system regulation while integrating DBT-informed skills such as emotion labeling, distress tolerance, mindfulness, interpersonal boundaries, and Wise Mind decision-making. By encouraging balanced media consumption, values-aligned action, and realistic boundaries with others and with one’s own mental space, clinicians can help clients move from dysregulation and helplessness toward steadiness, agency, and a life that feels meaningful—even in the midst of ongoing uncertainty.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 8/ Why Resolutions Fail—And How to Create Real Change in 2026
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 8/ Why Resolutions Fail—And How to Create Real Change in 2026

Many New Year’s resolutions fail—around 80% by mid-February—often not due to lack of willpower, but because of rigid goals, outcome-focused thinking, external pressures, and ignoring the body’s stress response. Alexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S, explains that lasting change in 2026 comes from a different approach: anchoring goals in personal values, breaking habits into micro-steps, practicing somatic grounding, redefining success through self-compassion, and building supportive systems rather than chasing perfection. By focusing on consistency, small wins, and meaningful routines, you can finally turn resolutions into sustainable growth.

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SZN. 4 Ep. 7/ Beyond Resolutions: Rethinking Change Before the New Year
Alexandria Gohla Alexandria Gohla

SZN. 4 Ep. 7/ Beyond Resolutions: Rethinking Change Before the New Year

Instead of chasing “New Year, New You” resolutions that often fail by February, Alexandria Gohla, MSW, LCSW, Ed.S, suggests a values-based approach to meaningful growth. Resolutions fail because they’re externally motivated, rigid, and disconnected from personal values. Sustainable change comes from reflecting on what’s already working, releasing what no longer serves you, and setting intentions rather than rigid goals. Practical strategies include conducting a compassionate year-in-review, choosing micro-goals that honor your nervous system, and finding supportive accountability. By focusing on self-compassion, intrinsic motivation, and small, safe steps, you can enter the New Year aligned with your values and build lasting, authentic growth.

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